Men: Be Charismatic and Influential
Attention anonymous men!
If you’re sick of being a someone of little influence or consequence, jump over here and learn to command the room like a man.
(via The Art of Manliness)
21 Reasons Why Gender Matters
In my town, recent episcopal appointments (actually, one in particular) have put the debate over gender issues back on the proverbial map.
Here’s an Aussie document ’summarising evidence based research on health valuing of gender complementarity and unhealthy risks of non-biblical lifestyles’.
Give it a read and let me know your thoughts.
H/T: Wayne Schuller
Driscoll Loses It! (In a good way)
If you’re a man and you haven’t watched Mark Driscoll’s recent sermon on 1 Peter 3:7 – You need to click here and watch it right now…
I’ve watched it 3 times, once with my wife. Humbling.
Good on ‘im for having a decent crack at men for disrespecting the ladies. Sometimes a pastor just needs to step up to the pulpit and verbally punch the men of the church in the jaw. Well done MD.
Books: Recovering Biblical Manhood and Womanhood
Needless to say, I LOVE this book!
It helped me so much when I was working hard to figure out my theological position on gender, church leadership, marriage, family etc etc.
I managed to find a bargain second-hand copy a few years ago at the Ridley Melbourne Bookshop, but you don’t need to!
Just jump over here to read it online for free!
(Or if you’re like me and you hate reading from a screen… you can buy the real thing here).
A Book for Your Wife(to be)
My wife is currently reading:
Practical Theology for Women: How Knowing God Makes a Difference in Our Daily Lives.
She says its a great book that manages to communicate the sometimes complicated truths of the Bible regarding femininity, submission, family etc. without the unhelpful theological nomenclature.
Buy one for your wife (or better, your wife to be!)
Yanks: Click
Poms: Here
Aussies: Now (if you want to boost the local economy) or here (if you don’t)
Who Is Supposed to Lead a Church?
Interested in the Bible’s view on church leadership?
Read an excerpt from Vintage Church here.
Piper: "Over My Dead Body, Son"
In case your new to Christianity, you need to know this:
John Piper is THE MAN.
I have listened to the guy preach through my earphones since I was saved 10 years ago.
God has used him to shape a lot of my thought.
In this article he just tells it like it is on a very relevant topic.
The Quotable Lewis: Modern Men (The death of manliness cont.)
“In a sort of ghastly simplicity we remove the organ and demand the function. We make men without chests and expect of them virtue and enterprise. We laugh at honour and are shocked to find traitors in our midst. We castrate and bid the geldings be fruitful.”
C. S. Lewis, The Abolition of Man (1943)
Is Manliness Obsolete?
A good article over at the (secular) blog: The Art of Manliness for those who, like me, mourn the death of good, godly, chivalrous, self-sacrificial, biblical masculinity.
Heroes: Spurgeon on Pastor’s Wives
From his autobiography, “The Full Harvest“:
Churches do not give a married minister two salaries, one for the husband and the other for the wife; but, in many cases, they look for the services of the wife, whether they pay for them or not.
The Pastor’s wife is expected to know everything about the church, and in another sense she is to know nothing of it; and she is equally blamed by some people whether she knows everything or nothing. Her duties consist in being always at home to attend to her husband and her family, and being always out, visiting other people, and doing all sorts of things for the whole church!
Well, of course, that is impossible; she cannot be at everybody’s beck and call, and she cannot expect to please everybody. Her husband cannot do that, and I think he is very foolish if he tries to do it; and I am certain that, as the husband cannot please everybody, neither can the wife. There will be sure to be somebody or other who will be displeased, especially if that somebody had herself half hoped to be the minister’s wife!
Difficulties arise continually, in the best-regulated churches; and the position of the minister’s wife is always a very trying one. Still, I think, that if I was a Christian young woman, I would marry a Christian minister if I could, because there is an opportunity of doing so much good in helping him in his service for Christ.
It is a great assistance to the cause of God to keep the minister himself in good order for his work. It is his wife’s duty to see that he is not uncomfortable at home; for, if everything there is happy, and free from care, he can give all his thoughts to his preparation for the pulpit; and the godly woman, who thus helps her husband to preach better, is herself a preacher though she never speaks in public, and she becomes to the highest degree useful to that portion of the Church of Christ which is committed to her husband’s charge’.
I couldn’t agree more with this!
I thank God that we belong to a church that isn’t too demanding when it comes to the expectations placed on Pastor’s wives, but bloody hell, it can be tough for them!
My wonderful wife Renee expressed her exasperation recently, “I just don’t know what my job is (at church)!” I was quick to tell her that she didn’t have a job at church – just a calling to be my helper.
I wonder if some churches (not yours or mine!) deliberately make the role of Pastor’s wife ambiguous because it means that they can load the lady up with more duties than they would otherwise get away with…?
Spurgeon: He’s the Man.
